Category Archives: Community can change

Stop Opposing God

A few weeks ago, at an event I was attending, a friend I have been getting to know over the past two years mentioned that he has been enjoying reading my posts. This led to a deep conversation about faith while walking around on a tour. It was pretty cool.

He mentioned that he is starting to look for a church for himself and his family. I asked him what was leading him in this direction. He said something along the lines of, “I grew up Catholic and then began to do my own thing. With all that is going on in our society, I want to lean back in and try to understand what God’s perspective is.”

Wow!

This morning, as I read the scriptures, I was reminded of this conversation when I came across the phrase “Cease Opposing God.”

Without saying it, this is what I heard this young man say. So many of us allow our own desires to rule and dominate our beliefs and actions. What would happen if our desire was to simply “cease opposing God”?

What would happen if we began to ask God to reveal to us what He thinks? What would happen if we asked God to show us what to believe and how to interact with the world?

The issues of the day are complex. The division on issues is real. We end up hating each other because we have opposing views on significant matters. What if we began to agree that together, we are going to simply seek to “stop opposing God”? That we are going to lean in, have hard conversations, listen, learn, and study the scriptures, trusting that God will guide us into all truth. We don’t need to walk away from those we disagree with. We can just have open and honest dialogue.

This will likely be hard for me to flesh out, but this is my desire. I believe God wants me to be able to disagree with the brother down the road, and yet still grab a coffee with him. We don’t need to be like the religious leaders in the scriptures who sought to kill those who opposed their views.

Practicing the way of Jesus invites us to live differently. Let’s do this together!

Helping one…a business perspective on People Matter

I think I have been highly impacted by this idea that if you do for one you should do for everyone. We have to be fair to everyone. As I begin to think about what it means to be involved in the business world and specifically the role of business owners I am constantly being hit with the level of need employees have.

After talking with several business owners it is pretty obvious that their is no perfect company. Every Employer has his/her unique challenges. Many of these challenges are related to Human Relations.  Many of these challenges are related to Inner Office conflict.

Employers are faced with a major challenge. Many small business want to be a blessing to their employees, yet each employee is faced with unique situations. What would be a blessing for one may not be for another. Some employees are shown more grace during the work day while others should be rewarded.

Often Employers are faced with the dilemma should I help this one…or should I bless that person who is doing well? Then you begin to question but if I do it for this person then that person may be offended or upset. Or when you do bless someone you hear others complain that they didn’t receive that which they believe they deserve.

This is not an easy road to navigate.

Andy Stanley shared a great message/thought that has really been encouraging me.  Checkout the video.

Helping One, Not Everyone: http://youtu.be/00Zu-BeUHTI

God in my Workplace- Leaving the 99

One of the biggest wrestles I continue to have as I step away from paid “full time” ministry is feeling that I what I am doing is not enough. I mean I went from focusing on the things of God most of my day to spending most of my day thinking about construction.

Even in my time as a Hospice Chaplain (which in more ways then one was a perfect fit for me, my family, and who I believe God is calling me to be) was filled with appointments and conversations about God. In many ways being a Chaplain was safe. My confidence and trust was still in what I was doing for God. It was obvious that God was using me as a chaplain.

In many ways I still want to put a number or measure the impact my faith is having. I want to be able to say today “I” did this for God. Here is the interesting thing. God is working in my workplace. No I don’t have daily stories to tell. I can’t say this person prayed or trusted in Christ. BUT GOD IS WORKING!

As I hear the stories of others and have a chance to speak the truth in love, I see God in my workplace. God is moving.  Yes it looks a lot different then what I am used to, but I can still see God at work in the lives of others. And yes, God is using me.

Who am I to say where I have the biggest impact? I serve a God who tells us He is willing to leave the 99 to search for the 1. I don’t know what God is doing. I don’t know what the future holds. But I know that God is in my workplace and I am so thankful that He is allowing me to see that He is there with me. I am not alone in my Workplace. God is there. God cares about my coworkers. God cares about my customers. God cares about me!  He is proud of me and my willingness to leave the 99 to spend time searching for the 1….2….3….or however many people He wants to use me to impact.

God I thank you for Your presence in my workplace. God help me to continue to believe that Your Light can shine in the midst of the darkness. Help me to believe that this community that I am now apart of can change. God help me to be faithful despite how I feel!

The Path is Changing

As I began planning my week I realized something. The path I used to travel has changed. For four years I drove from my South York home to West York. Now most of my time is spent South of York City. I simply don’t travel the same path.

The impact of this is pretty significant. For several years I stopped at a gas station/Subway to see my good friend Siddiqui. Over the years I have really gotten to know him and some of his coworkers. It seems like I have been distant for the past several months. The reality I don’t travel that path. Now I will have to figure out how to be more intentional with those relationships.

This is so important for me to understand because the Path I travel is changing. I recently got offered a part time position as a Hospice Chaplain and will be working out of an office just East of York City. Already I have begun to think about the relationships that I have built here in South York. Already I am beginning to get excited about the new relationships that will form on the new path I will travel.

The path is changing and that means I will have to be more intentional with relationships that I have formed. The path is changing and I am excited to see what awaits me around the next bend.

God is good and I believe He is guiding me as I step out in faith to embrace who He has called me to be. God is good and I am thankful for all that awaits me!

How is the Path that you walking?
Has it changed? Is it time for a change?
Are you being intentional with the path you are on and the old paths you used to walk?