Category Archives: Live

Days are flying by

Four kids, busy job and the days sure do fly by. It is hard to believe that another weekend is upon us. It is hard to believe that it is getting dark before 7:30 PM. Before we know it winter will be upon us and we will be locked inside our homes all night.

The days are flying by. My oldest son will be turing 8 in January. My youngest, a beautiful little girl, will be two in November. It is so hard to believe how fast the days are going.

So my biggest wrestle continues to be how am I to live out my calling as a Pastor. How should I spend the days that are flying by? Most weeks I work 50+ hours.

Last night I had the opportunity to be in a room full of Pastors. It was a blessing. My wife encouraged me to go. The opportunity was before me, it  made sense so I went. I think the same is becoming true of other situations. I am learning to pay attention to my calling and what God lays on my heart. It is not about what I do, but who I am. I am a pastor and I want to live into my calling.

The days are flying by, so I encourage you to discover who you are called to be, and learn to live into it. It’s not easy, but I cant think of a better way to spend my tim

Facebook Message Reminded Me- UnKnowing Impact

This week I received one of the most impactful FaceBook messages I have ever received.  Someone who I had brief interaction with several years ago sent me a message simply to let me know how his life has changed. I had no IDEA the impact my life had on him.

My desire is to encourage followers of Jesus to declare a different way to live life where ever our lives are stationed. To believe this God has asked me to step out of my comfort-zone. I am in the most challenging season of my life and sometimes I wonder how does one really make a difference for God.

The FaceBook Message I got came at the right time. See, in my heart I believe that no matter where our lives are stationed, we can have an impact for God, but often I hear a different message. Despite having moved away from full-time paid ministry over a year and a half ago, sometimes I still hear voices from my past that basically say, “to really make a difference for God you have to be a pastor or missionary.” There are days when I feel like this. There are days when I wrestle and say is this statement right? Maybe full time ministry is the only way to have an impact.

But this Facebook Message reminded me that often followers of Jesus can unknowingly have impact on the lives of others. I was reminded that 6 years ago I simply went out and spent some time with a young man. I don’t remember much about that day. I remember basketball and then going back to drop him off at his house. His parents where home so I went in to introduce myself. And this is where the impact happened.

The Facebook Message states that as I entered his home the dynamics of his household changed. The brief time we spent together was the start of transformation in his family. …”our faith has been spreading. And the wake up call all began that day when you took me out and came in to meet my family. You personally have been an extreme blessing to my family, with your presence alone you changed the dynamics of it for the better.”

I write this for one purpose. I write this because this helps me to continue to believe that no matter where our lives are stationed we can declare a different way to live life. As we share our faith and lives with others, “our presence alone can bring about change.”

It is the desire of our hearts that is key. My prayer is that we would be able to trust God with the impact our lives make. We don’t need to compare. We don’t need to have a list of people we have brought to church. It doesn’t even matter how many people you have “saved.”  What matters is the desire of your heart. Because maybe, you’re unknowingly having an impact.

The Path is Changing

As I began planning my week I realized something. The path I used to travel has changed. For four years I drove from my South York home to West York. Now most of my time is spent South of York City. I simply don’t travel the same path.

The impact of this is pretty significant. For several years I stopped at a gas station/Subway to see my good friend Siddiqui. Over the years I have really gotten to know him and some of his coworkers. It seems like I have been distant for the past several months. The reality I don’t travel that path. Now I will have to figure out how to be more intentional with those relationships.

This is so important for me to understand because the Path I travel is changing. I recently got offered a part time position as a Hospice Chaplain and will be working out of an office just East of York City. Already I have begun to think about the relationships that I have built here in South York. Already I am beginning to get excited about the new relationships that will form on the new path I will travel.

The path is changing and that means I will have to be more intentional with relationships that I have formed. The path is changing and I am excited to see what awaits me around the next bend.

God is good and I believe He is guiding me as I step out in faith to embrace who He has called me to be. God is good and I am thankful for all that awaits me!

How is the Path that you walking?
Has it changed? Is it time for a change?
Are you being intentional with the path you are on and the old paths you used to walk?